| || || Dating isn't as easy as it first appears. Most of us know from experience that it's not as simple as meeting a great guy, spending time with him and falling in love. There are some unspoken rules when it comes to dating and some of them involve the telephone. If you're with a man for any length of time you've probably asked yourself the question of why doesn't he call me. Most men just aren't as quick to pick up the phone and call as we are. If you find yourself in this situation there are a few simple and effective things you can do to get your man to call you more often. |
When it comes to a man who doesn't call you've got to consider your own actions before you think about his. Most women make the same mistake and that's that they call their man often. Too often actually. If you are impatient and you call him repeatedly during the day, you are demonstrating to him that there's absolutely no reason for him to call you. Why should he? He knows that if he waits long enough he'll hear from you.
Most of us have at least one friend who seems to have the ideal relationship. She's involved with a man who calls her several times a day just to say hello. You look at her and wonder what she's doing that you're not doing. The answer is simple. She's not calling him. In fact, she's probably rarely calling him at all. He has no choice but to call her if he wants to talk to her. She's keeping his interest up by making him work for the relationship and her attention. If you want your man to treat you that way, you've got to follow the lead of women like that. Starting today stop calling your man. It won't take long before he starts calling you and keeps calling you. Although it may seem like a complicated problem it's actually got an incredibly simple solution.
You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. Find out when you should be calling your man.
You may think that there's no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they'll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when the perfect time to call him is so that he'll find you irresistible.
Illustration from Clyde Mendes column at MetroSexual LA