Revealed: Why men like wet kisses

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Revealed: Why men like wet kisses

 
 
   

Kissing your man means revealing a lot more than just passion. US scientists claim that modern man lip locks to pick up traces of estrogen in a woman's saliva and thus gauge her fertility. 

Anthropologist Helen Fisher of Rutgers University says that such behaviour may explain why men like wet kisses with more "tongue action".

While at a meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science in Chicago, Fisher said that wet kisses could also be an unconscious attempt to transfer testosterone to the woman, which would stimulate her sexual interest. 

"Men see kissing early in a relationship directly as a step to copulation," she said. 

According to Wendy Hill, a neuroscientist at Lafayette College in Easton, Pennsylvania, kissing may also serve as a way to assess the quality of a mate. 

Fisher said that research has shown that the majority of men and women rate their first kiss as either "the kiss of death" or the blossoming of a new relationship. 

The expert recently developed a personality test that measures four universal temperaments by using statistics from 40,000 people on the Internet dating site. 

Fisher found that a person's temperament guides which type of mate they select-boosting her belief that love involves some very powerful brain chemistry. 

"People sing for love; they dance for love; they write about love; live for, kill, and die for love," Fisher told National Geographic News.

"It's a wonderful addiction when [a relationship is] working well-but perfectly horrible when it's working poorly," she added.

Tongue action can transfer testosterone to the woman and arouse sexual interest

Washington: When you share a kiss with your man, you reveal a lot more than just passion. US scientists have found that modern man uses a kiss to pick up traces of estrogen in a woman's saliva and thus gauge her fertility.

Anthropologist Helen Fisher of Rutgers University says that such behaviour may explain why men like wet kisses with more "tongue action".

While at a meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science in Chicago, Fisher said that wet kisses could also be an unconscious attempt to transfer testosterone to the woman, which would stimulate her sexual interest.

"Men see kissing early in a relationship directly as a step to copulation," she said.

According to Wendy Hill, a neuroscientist at Lafayette College in Easton, Pennsylvania, kissing may also serve as a way to assess the quality of a mate. Fisher said that research has shown that the majority of men and women rate their first kiss as either "the kiss of death" or the blossoming of a new relationship.

The expert recently developed a personality test that measures four universal temperaments by using statistics from 40,000 people on the Internet dating site Chemistry.com.

Each temperament type was linked to activity levels of the brain chemicals dopamine/norepinephrine, serotonin, testosterone, and estrogen/oxytocin. Fisher found that a person's temperament guides which type of mate they select-boosting her belief that love involves some very powerful brain chemistry. "People sing for love; they dance for love; they write about love; live for, kill, and die for love," Fisher told National Geographic News.

Why Some Men Don't Like to Kiss?
Have you ever been with a man who does not like to kiss? The chances are remote, but there are some men out there who really hate the lip on lip experience. The possible reason why some men don't like to kiss is as follows: 

Men who have had constant bad kissing experiences during childhood:

Bad kissing experiences especially very early on could leave a man thinking that kissing sucks. It can also make a man less confident of his kissing abilities. This feeling becomes stronger as he losses girlfriends solely because of bad kissing. Bad kissing experiences can happen because of a variety of reasons. Some are as follows: 

  • Clash of teeth with teeth: The feeling to teeth touching teeth in a kiss can be very uncomfortable for both people involved 

  • Kiss with very dry lips 

  • Kissing a woman having extreme bad breath 

  • Bleeding arising from the kiss because of teeth or aggressive kissing 

  • Getting an infection after a kiss (by coincidence) 

  • Because of these bad kissing experiences some men start thinking that kissing is gross and unhealthy. Some men start fearing that kissing can lead to infections.

  • Others start loosing confidence in them-selves thinking that they are bad kissers and that their bad kissing abilities can lead to potential break-ups with the girl they love. 

How to make your man kiss you again?
It's hard to have a relationship with man who does not like to kiss. This is because kissing is the best way a man can express his love for his woman. There are so many sensory nerves on the lips which makes kissing the most sought after experiences when it comes to love making. So how do you deal with a man who does not want to kiss? Is it possible to make him do so? Yes, it is possible. Consider the following techniques tips: 

  • The right lipstick and lip-gloss can work wonders for your lips by making them look more attractive to your man. Try a different shade of the color red makes him nervous 

  • Go step by step in the kissing process, first by just the touch of the lips and then slowly towards the more intimate of kisses. In other words, start with a dry kiss and slowly as time passes more to the wet kiss part 

  • Take good care of your lips and keep them moistened so there are no cracks or dead skin 

  • Maintain oral hygiene. Keep your teeth as white as possible. Use a teeth whitener or get a treatment if required. Clean http://tinyurl.com/yjj3oyyyour tongue with a tongue cleaner to ensure it is completely red with no sign of white spots. If possible flush your mouth with water or a cleaner before going for the kiss 

  • If your front teeth are protruding or you have misaligned teeth, go for dental correction. Consider braces if you have protruding front teeth. There are some invisible braces which you can try out. 

  • Go for a lip plumper. No man can resist the temptation of kissing full and plump lips 
    Avoid eating food items like onions, fish etc before kissing. Also avoid cigarettes and alcohol 

  • Keep telling your man that he is a great kisser and try to bring back his lost confidence 

Try these techniques on how to make your man kiss you and your man is sure to start loving to kiss all over again.

 

 

 

 

 

 




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