| || || | It is normal for a couple to quarrel at times. The fight may be caused by some misunderstanding or it may be because of some things such as incompatibility of interests or mistakes. One of the most difficult things to do after a hot fight or argument is to make up. Mending up things after a hot argument is crucial for a relationship. This will allow you to start over again and can even help in fostering a stronger bond in the relationship. If you and your man has just gone through an argument and you do not know how to make up with your man after a fight, here are some tips on how to mend up things after a hot argument:
Say sorry. There may be different means to mend up things after a fight but nothing beats the traditional and classical way of saying sorry. The best thing to show to your boyfriend or husband that you want to make up with him is to say sorry. Saying sorry is very difficult and challenging most especially if you are prideful enough and you believe that you were not the one who committed the mistake. Saying sorry does not mean you are wrong.
It simply means you are sorry and you feel bad for hurting your man. Saying sorry also implies the message that you do not want to hurt and causes your man trouble. If you have had a fight and you want to end it up, go ahead and say sorry to your man. Offer a making-up gift. Another way for you to mend up things with your boyfriend after a fight is to offer him a making- up gift. This can be a box of his favorite chocolate or a note saying you love him and you want to make things right again. Offering a gift is most helpful if you have hurt your man enough and you know that you are the one who committed the mistake.
Talk to him. If you find saying sorry very difficult, you will find it easier to “just talk” to your man as if something did not happen. You can start up a conversation such as by asking him if he wants to eat or if he is hungry. If things seem to be normal again, it is best to talk about the problem calmly so you will be able to settle the problem more efficiently.
If you do not know how to make up with your man after a fight, you can solve the problem by saying sorry. Saying sorry implies the message that you do not want to hurt your man. You can also offer a making-up gift. Offering a gift is most helpful if you have hurt your man so badly and you know that you are the one who wronged. You can also decide to just talk to him and when things seem to be normal again, you will be able to talk and settle the problem more efficiently.
Illustration from Clyde Mendes column at MetroSexual LA