| || || | In order to make her wants you more, you may actually first need to “push” her away. Why is it that nightclubs make people to queue up outside for hours when they have plenty of rooms inside? It is actually all about creating the feeling of attraction.
We humans usually only want what we do not have. When we get it, we will get bored with it, and will soon lose interest. This applied to relationships as well. When you know that you can easily hook up with that woman, will you still feel excited about it?
Therefore, when you do not present a challenge to a woman, by acting like a small puppy following and listening to her all the times, she will feel that you are just one typical normal guy that she have met. She will feel no challenge at all and thus will lose interest in you. Playing hard to get is the key thing here that I am going to share with you.
I am going to share with you 3 ways that you can use right away so as to make a woman wants you more.
- Create a challenge for her. Do not be a puppy, be the owner of the puppy.
- Give in to her a little, and then play hard to get with her. Lean back, do not be too proactive.
- Make her miss you and be as unpredictable as you can.
When you create a challenge for her, she will become very interested in you. If you are just pouring all of your attention and giving her everything she wants, you will become very uninteresting to her.
And being unpredictable, you are on your way to create the attraction that she will feel towards you. Things that are too predictable provide no excitement at all, no sparks and thrill. Unpredictable things are fascinating to people, especially to a woman.
Just remember these 3 points and communicate to her, just do not try to be a puppy and you will be on the right track.
- Be a gentleman. No woman can resist a man that knows how to make her feel special so when out on a date, hold the door, be friendly and show her that you are having a great time hanging out with her.
- Show respect by not being overly aggressive and by respecting her boundaries. If she does not want you to make any sexual advances, be respectful of that. Take your time getting to know her personally and find out her likes and dislikes.
- Try to be relaxed around the woman you're with and don't be afraid to show her your funny side. Women love a man who has a sense of humor and telling a joke or two shows them you are a fun guy.
- Give the woman a compliment and tell her she is pretty or talk about her best physical feature-- eyes, smile, beautiful hair or her outfit. A little flattery will definitely score you some points.
- Let your personality shine by being an interesting person. Tell her a couple of good stories, be smart and/or a little mysterious. A woman likes a man that isn't clingy, who has his own interests and will not be at her beck and call at all times. Showing her you have your own life will make you look very attractive.
- Listen to what she has to say. Do not dominate the conversation. Don't talk about yourself exclusively. Understand that healthy communication involves not only speaking but listening to the other person and paying attention to what they’re saying and responding.
Tips & Warnings
Signs That Women Are Interested There are signs that you can look for to tell if women are attracted to you. Yes, women show non-verbal flirting signs that flow spontaneously when they're interested.
- Every woman is different when it comes to the qualities she likes in a man. If you can't meet her expectations, bid her farewell. Just be you.
- Women don’t expect a man to be absolutely perfect.
- Don't ever check out other women or flirt with them in your date's presence.
- Avoid discussing past relationship woes or about an ex. No woman wants to deal with a guy with extra emotional baggage.
Body language signs to watch for:
- Giving you an inviting smile, or smiling when you check out her body.
- Playing with or tossing her hair. If she's throwing her hair over her shoulder, she wants you to notice her.
- Pointing in your direction with her leg, foot, or shoulders.
- Leaning toward you while talking.
- Fondling a piece of jewelry (an earring, for example) or stroking the stem of her glass (big clue here!).
- Keeping her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks.
- Mirroring your body movements (for example, if you put your hand on the table, she quickly does the same).
- Touching you. This is one of the most telling signs. when you're out on a date with a woman who likes you, you will notice that in most cases, she will find an excuse to physically touch you in some way during the date.
Signs She's Interested in You If You Meet Online
It is important to know how to interpret signs in those first few e-mails when approaching a new woman.
She is playful in her responses.
If a woman is interested to know you better, she will respond with playful, interactive e-mails. Cool, short responses mean she is trying to politely end the relationship before it starts, but fun, inviting e-mails that encourage banter and further e-mails are definitely good signs that she is interested.
She asks questions.
If a woman asks questions in her e-mails, she is interested in getting to know more about you.
She sends you pictures.
If a woman sends you pictures of herself, she is inviting you to admire her and ask her out.
Illustration from Clyde Mendes column at MetroSexual LA