It is rather difficult for you to win a man’s trust and faith in you. However with the right methods, perseverance and hard work it is very much possible for you to make your partner have blind faith in you. The main thing you have to bear in mind to make your man trust you is to find out why they behave as they do and why they do the things they do.
Remember it is not possible for you to change your partner into the person you would like to see or force him to become the person you want him to become. It is only possible for you to influence and persuade your partner into trusting you. Make sure trust is made a priority in married life as most people start a relationship as self centered people. It is only if you are trustworthy that you can expect your man trust and have faith in you.
It is practically impossible for a couple to be together over a period of time without having some trust violating experience. It is quite natural for you to have spits over trust related matters where there is no guarantee that the trust will not be broken again. However with love, you can let the past be the past, and make your man develop trust over you.
Transparency in marriage is another requirement to make your man have blind faith over you and to trust you completely. Most people tend to have a hedge of self protection from being known. If you have such a wall around you, your man will find it difficult to read and understand you. You have to get to know and understand each other as once you get to understand each other, the trust between you two tends to increase. With this, you feel more at peace with each other.
It can be said that trust grows from the willingness of you both being vulnerable enough to be known by each other. Practice self-disclosure in your relationship, and you are sure to find your man blindly trusting you in no time at all. With self-disclosure, your man starts reciprocating and you find that your marriage turns out to be more satisfying. You don’t find or have the need of ‘covering up’ things that you would not want him to see or vice versa with self-disclosure. However, when revealing more about yourself to your partner, ensure that you are careful on revealing information that may damage your present relationship. In addition to this, any secrets or information that your man opens up to you should be kept with you in complete privacy. If you tend to disclose whatever your boyfriend or husband had revealed to you out of trust, you end up losing whatever trust you had built in your relationship with so much difficulty. Believe your partner and make your partner believe in you and pretty soon you will have your man trust you with his life if required too.
Illustration from Clyde Mendes column at MetroSexual LA