| || || | Asian women have long been considered ideal wives by most western men. There are several stories of western men who traveled all the way from Europe and America to Asia just to find Asian women for their bride. In case you are wondering, here are some 6 reasons why Asian women make good wives.
- Asian women render utmost respect to their husbands.
It is a known fact that Asian culture recognize men to be superior over women, hence, Asian women are generally submissive to their spouses. Despite the emergence of Asian Feminist groups, most Asian women remain loyal to their culture and traditions. (Specific Asian Region: South Korea, Japan, Thailand, China and Philippines)
- Asian women respect marriage. They will do what it takes to preserve their marriage.
In asian culture, successful marriage are those that last a lifetime. It’s a huge humiliation to Asian women and their families if their spouses leave them. Moreover, separation and divorce constitute to a failed marriage. These are the least things an Asian woman desires. For Asian women, a successful marriage is one that lasts a lifetime.
- Asian women are loyal and honest to their husbands.
One distinct characteristic of Asian women is their extreme loyalty to their husbands. According to studies comparing inter-racial marriages, marriages with Asian women are the least susceptible to extra-marital affairs. This is generally true to Asian women because it’s a part of their culture. Asian women will do everything in their power to avoid any reason that will cause their marriage to collapse. Asian women expect their husbands to be one-woman-man and in return, you expect the same from them.
- Asian women are naturally sweet and romantic.
A foreigner who is married to an Asian woman can attest of her sweetness and romanticism. Any foreigner who is married to an Asian woman certainly expriences a different level of treatment, love and care. This is because Asian women are culturally conditioned to perform a distinct role in the household.
- Asian women make good wives and mothers.
Most of women in the world who still breastfeed their babies are Asian women, a proof that Asian women care about their children over themselves. With the moral and cultural backgrounds of Asian women, you are ensured that your children are in good hands and will grow under their tender loving care.
Most nannies in the world are Asians, another clear manifestation that Asian women are good housekeepers too. Be informed however that Asian women are not only limited to household chores, some are career oriented although most Asian women would choose family over their career. The fact is, most Asian women are educated and qualified professionals but at times when confronted with a dilemma, their family is their top priority.
- Asian women are known for their religiosity.
Most Asian women believe and fear God such that they are constantly reminded to do God’s will. God’s will for them is to be in unity with their husbands, and family, to do well to others and to do good to everyone. Asia is the only part of the World where religion still plays a significant role in molding the culture and tradition of the people. Religion still holds a great influence to how Asian women think.
There are even more reason why Asian women make good wives. I’m sure that there are those who disagree of these reasons. I would love to hear what you have to say. Do drop your comments and reactions in the comment below.
Tips for dating an Asian Girl
Lets be sincere here, Asian girls are pretty and sexy creatures. I won't be surprised if you have once held a secret desire to date Asian girls before of if you even still have such a desire. If you are not an Asian you probably know little about Asia and would find the girls even more alluring since their ways seem quite distinct from European girls or girls from other part of the world. This is not to say that they are a different specie altogether but their rich cultural heritage makes them quite distinct in their way of life or behavior. Globalization has brought about a more blending of cultures between different lands but still you just might need some tips on how to date an Asian girl successfully.
Are you among the many who have tried, really tried to date an Asian but can't seem to get past the first date? Here are some tips that would help you, as you would see the problem has not been her but you and your style.
- First tip is that you should not try to date an Asian girl. I mean don't try the traditional dating moves. A dinner, movie, an occasional goodnight kiss and the no more calls from her. This is what everyone else is doing and it comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. These is what every one else has been doing with her. Try something easier, cheaper and less conventional. Something like just meeting for coffee, no big set up or preparations. She is less prepared and expectant. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations.
- Every guy tries that gets a woman or an Asian out on a date tries to impress her with is detailed "rap" or speech moves. The truth is she has heard it all before in many variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her the more the Asian girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and Asian girls like you challenging.
- Do not be Mr. Goody-goody. Be a bit naughty throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Do not over do it but do not show her you are over impressed with her looks. Naughty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are.
- Asian girls get a lot of admirers and so you have to be different to leave an impression. Most of them would want to give you little test to see how firm you are. Do not just give in to every one of her whim. Sometimes you can playfully yet firmly resist or refuse her. This is quite a turn on for Asian girls, a guy who takes charge (please don't over do it)
- Believe it or not an Asian girl would rate you more if she discovers you are admired by other Asian girls. So don't spend all your time with one. Widen out and let them know you are trying to decide and have a lot of admirers. You just would be surprised with he results.
- Asians are family bound, if you meet an Asian lady you would likely notice that family bounds are more respected within them. So get to know more about her family. Be interested in her family it sure would boost the possibility of your success.
- Honesty is also a quality that is highly respected in the Asian society. A man of honor does not lie and does not abandon his responsibility. If you wish to impress an Asian girl you have to prove to her that you can be such a man of honor.
I believe you are better armed to tackle the next Asian girl that comes along. These tips if properly followed would leave you smiling each time(you know what i mean).
Illustration from Clyde Mendes column at MetroSexual LA